Am si eu o rugaminte:cine ma ajuta si pe mine cu niste compuneri cam de o pag in lb engleza. orice in afara de craciun iarna si cel mai bun prieten.
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Buna! Am gasit o compunere despre familie. Daca vrei, poti sa o mai scurtezi.
What Family Is To Me

Since birth, I have grown up with a different concept of family than most people do. Instead of being born into my biological family, I was adopted into my given family. I have known I was adopted, for as long as I can remember because my parents made sure to tell me so, at the earliest age that I could understand. By adopting me and my sister into the family, my parents showed that family means love, respect and sacrifice. My adoption gave me a family to belong to and be loved by. Love is the first part in any family. I can be defined in more ways than one.

Family love is the strongest type because it is unconditional. This unconditional love means that no matter what happens my family will still love me. They have shown this love for twenty years now. And after all the things I have done wrong, or done badly, my family still shows this unconditional love to me and to each other. The second part in a family is respect and trust. Trust is something that can take years to build, but can be broken very easily. By breaking trust with a family member one is also breaking respect of the family. The two ideas go hand in hand. My parents respected me enough to tell me that I was adopted, instead of lying to me and having me find out later in life that I wasn’t their biological son. This respect that my parents gave me, in turn gave me their trust. And I gave them the respect and trust that was given to me.

Without sacrifice, a family cannot be. The sacrifices that family members make for each other show the willingness to be an unselfish part of a family. Sacrifices also display the love, respect and trust in a family. I know that even though some of the time it may not seem that my parents would sacrifice anything for me, I realize that they would do anything for and everything for me and that I would do the same for them. At times it’s the smallest sacrifices that make the biggest difference in a family.

Families do not have to be biological. Here in Altoona, I have a chosen family o friends who I consider to be just as close as a family. Among my chosen family, one can find love, respect and trust, and sacrifice for one another. As a chosen family we still work the same way that a given family does, by having a sense of belonging and a sense of love toward each other.

In life one may come across many people. Some will hate and while others will adore. The ones who hate can be referred to as enemies and theones who show adoration will be called friends. People may say the word friends is to broad. In the opinions of many, there are three types of friends. They are the aquaintinces he/she makes in school, the friends he/she looses as one grows, and bewt friends who may stray, but never too f ar away.

First of all, there are those friends that are only seen in school. Seeing them on the street is like they are not even there. One may have known them throughout their whole school career, but have never talked to them outside of school. These school aqquaintinces are nice people to talk to, but there is never an effort to do anything more than that. These friends are good because there are never any chances to take with them. One just talks to them and then they go on their merry way. These school aqquaintinces are the peopl who are talked to about different hoobies and class studies. Not ones personal life. School aquaitnices are the people that one will not see for the first time until the schools ten year reunion.

Second, there are former friends. These are the ones taht grew up in ones neighborhood and moved away. These are the friends who will bring back memories that people thoght were forgotten. One might be embarassed at first about seeing their former friend, but as soon as conversation begins all the embarassement will be a thing of the past. Former friends are the ones that little secrets about meaqningless ideas were told to as a child, or the person who spent countlerss nights at ones house sleeping over. These are the people that knew ones parents very well, almost as well as the friend was known. Te\hen all of a sudden out of nowhere this former friend is never spoken again to for years. Former friends give a sense of oldness to a person. In the long run they are good to have and to talk to.

Finally, there are best friends who are the people that have been known all their lives or even just a few years. These friends regardless male or female can talk to a friend about anything on their mind. Many experiences have occured between two best friends or even a group of best friends. These kinds of friends share a common bnd that will last forever. Intimate secrets and special favors are all traits in which best friends can rely on each other for. All these examples are whypeople not only neebest friends, but should want them as well. These friends are future best men, bridesmaids, godfathers, and godmothers. They are the brothers and sisters ones parents never had. They are a part of oneself, if not all of that oneself.

These friends mold the way of life one is going to live. Ones traits, beliefs, hobbies, jobs and even personality may come from the types of friends one encounters throughout life. Choosing friends wisely is a good habit to get into, for there are many bad influences in the world today. Friends come in many ways, but in the opinion of many the come as aquaintinces in school, the friends people wil lose as they grow older, and best friends who may stray, but never too far away.


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